Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, or some other holiday, December is a month of remembering the great gifts God has given to us. It is also a time to give to others. Gifts represent our love and appreciation for those who are dear to us. Gift giving also represents acceptance or a peace offering. This holiday season let your adult stepfamily know you care through a thoughtful gift. A thoughtful gift can be something the individual wants or needs; something using your talents to create a craft, bake a kitchen goody, or write a poem; or something from the heart. Gifts of the heart are often those that matter most and include love, friendship, kindness, and compassion among others. As a remarried (step)parent or an adult (step)child, take the time to consider how you can best express your love and appreciation for your (step)family members. Let them know you accept them for who they are and the blessings they bring into your life or the life of your parent. If your stepfamily relationships include hurt feelings or offenses, consider this time of year an opportunity to heal old wounds by giving a peace offering. May you and your family experience the wonder of this season through a sincere expression of love and acceptance.

Posted: December 19th, 2007 under stepfamily relationships, holidays.
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