NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS
At the beginning of each new year many people make resolutions. Among the top ten most popular resolutions is to enjoy quality time with family and friends (www.goalsguy.com). Unless we actually plan specific ways to improve our time together, chances are slim that we will realize our desire. Other issues, such as work schedules, living in different cities, or being part of a blended family, hamper the achievement of our goal. Though challenging, achievement is possible. It simply requires a little more effort. Quality time with family is worth the effort even with mature stepfamilies. (Step)parents and adult (step)children may wonder where they begin to improve their relationships. Often small and simple behaviors make a world of difference. Inviting your parent and stepparent to dinner, helping your child or stepchild with a project, calling to say hello are just a few suggestions of simple behaviors that enhance relationships. Decide upon the frequency of your contact, daily, weekly, monthly. Don’t delay, begin this week. Then be patient as you allow time for your mature (step)family relationships to grow
Posted: January 1st, 2008 under stepfamily relationships.
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