Adult Stepfamilies–Remarriage Later in Life

Archive for March, 2008

EASTER MESSAGE

            Christians around the world celebrate Easter this month. Easter commemorates the resurrection of Jesus Christ, which offers hope to all mankind of a glorious resurrection from the grave. The events in Christ’s life in the days preceding the resurrection are also significant in offering hope. Jesus’ suffering in the Garden of Gethsemane and again on the cross at Calvary atoned for the sins of every man, woman, and child who repent of their sins and come unto Him. Forgiveness is a glorious blessing offered by the Savior of the world. He invited us to follow His example and to forgive those who have transgressed against us.  

            Celebrate this Easter season by forgiving your (step)parent or your (step)child who in one way or another offended you. Chances are the offense was unintentional and the individual has no clue what he or she did that caused the offense. Dr. Fred Luskin said, “Hurt and anger are meant to be fleeting emotions, not permanent fixtures. Too many of us never get over the bad things that happened, towing grudges from the past that hinder our lives, harm our health, and shorten our horizons….No matter the hurt, to forgive brings an almost divine peace.” (Forgive for Good, HarperCollins, 2002) For your own good health—physical, psychological, and spiritual—forgive those who have hurt you and experience the divine peace that can benefit you and those you love. 

Terri P. Smith, authorWhen Your Parent Remarries Late in Life(to order your copy from www.amazon.com click on the book image on the right)