Summer time offers a variety of options for family fun and activities which lend themselves to family togetherness and bonding. Whether you are a new, young, or well-established mature blended family, longer days and warmer temperatures provide opportune times to go for a hike, have a barbecue, spend time at a water park, or enjoy recreational activities at the local park. Many families plan a summer family reunion including games for all ages, a talent show, and good food and conversation.

            Remember the leisure time you enjoyed as a child during the summer break? How nice it was not to think about assignments, tests, or bells ringing the beginning or end of class! Everyone enjoys a break now and them from hectic schedules or deadlines. Family leisure activities offer a similar break from the busyness of daily work or family routine. Activities invite families to enjoy each other’s company in a relaxed atmosphere. They promote conversation, laughter, or exercise.

            One summer our extended family congregated at a local park for a barbecue and a game of kickball. The children wanted to be on a team competing against their parents. We laughed as we ate, played, and reminisced.

            Perhaps you’ve considered inviting your parent and stepparent or your stepchildren to join you for a summer concert or picnic in the park, but you just haven’t gotten around to doing it. The good news is that half the summer remains to plan a family activity before temperatures begin cooling down. Stop procrastinating! Plan a date and initiate contact. Enjoy some leisure time together and create happy family memories.

            Please share activities your family has enjoyed doing together.

Terri P. Smith, author of When Your Parent Remarries Late in Life, (to order your copy from www.amazon.com, click on the book image on the right of the screen)

Posted: July 23rd, 2008 under family fun, successful stepfamilies.
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